Anonymous asked:

hey just an update, im matt who posted about a week ago. I decided to go for it. and its going really well:) im glad I decided too. haven't been this happy in a long time!

Hey Matt!

I am so glad, along with everybody else I am sure, that everything worked out for you. Happiness is a great thing — keep me/us posted!

Anonymous asked:

hey, im matt, im 20. ive always went for girls with no luck, im a virgin, never dated. so I started looking for men on dating sites with still no luck. just as I was about to quit a man(58) msgd me. it was weird cuz of his age but im really lonely and suffer depression and he wants to help me. but he also wants to take my virginity. which I kinda want but kinda don't want. im looking for love/happiness but I want to make him happy. do u think a 38 yr age different is ok for dating and for sex?

Hey Matt,

Personally, I don’t believe you should have sex just so you can lose your virginity. If you truly feel that you need to lose your virginity, I am not going to be the one to tell you no, as it’s your decision. If it makes you feel any better, I am 21 and have yet to have sex. I have hooked up with guys and currently have a boyfriend, but I have never been inside a guy or them in me.

To address your emotional state: I truly hope you will not be taken advantage of because of you possibly being in a vulnerable state. The choice to have sex should always be yours — don’t let anybody take that away from you.

My boyfriend is 48, so a 27 year age difference for us. I don’t see any problem with this, as we get along extremely well and share a lot in common. I believe it is up to you to decide whether you could see yourself dating someone of that age. Perhaps having a relationship with a 58 year old might yield a different answer than just hooking up with a 58 year old just for sex.

I wish you the best!

If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.